November 17, 2017
Since I only ever take digital photos these days, my pictures rarely get printed. Even if I did order prints, where do you put them? Who wants all that paper clutter?
I don’t really care if I have photos displayed in my home. And I don’t super miss photo albums like I had growing up. But I do miss being able to show people pictures in-person and talk about them. (And not via Facebook.) But instead of printing single photos, I’ve come up with a solution that I’ve been quite satisfied with for the past 6 years: yearbooks.
My yearbook is a photo album that only includes photos from the past year.
Before Thanksgiving every year (since 2012), I make a single square photo album that sums up our year. I include all our best/favorite photos from the past 12 months and create themed page spreads. Then I bring the book with me the next time we visit family. When they ask, “what have you guys been up to?” I pull out the book and show them (and I secretly love doing that).
I don’t just toss all my photos into the book– I deliberately plan out what each page spread will be. This forces me to create a narrative for the year, and it’s actually pretty insightful. Do I like the story of my life this year? What would I change for next year?
One theme that we loved from 2013 has had a place every year since: food we loved this year. Looking back at old yearbooks is super fun, especially this food page and seeing what we were loving back then.
A couple of our books have signatures in them. I think this came out of my sister joking about it being a “yearbook” and asked if she could sign it like you do with school yearbooks (quite literally: “never change!”). I said yes, and let other family members and friends write in it, too.
One other thing I do with these books is tape our holiday card into the back. I just use double-stick tape on the back of an envelope. This way, I have that year’s holiday card right with the book. We typically write about our travels and life events on the card, too, so it’s also there for that extra info.
Details about the books:
I make them on Shutterfly. Their software is easy to use and the print quality is fine.
Besides my photos, I use only free backgrounds, stickers, and elements in Shutterfly. I try to just have fun with the layouts and get them done as efficiently as possible, knowing that if I spend too much time on it I will get sucked in and be frustrated that Shutterfly isn't my beloved Adobe InDesign.
Each book is 8x8 inches. One of my books came with a free upgrade: Lay-flat pages. It's bigger than the rest. Unfortunately, Shutterfly doesn't tell you that their fancy layflat pages makes your book 1 cm wider. Had I known, I wouldn't have done it.
Shutterfly's 8x8 books are about $20. I typically pay for mine using free 8x8 book coupons I get from my local Safeway. I can pretty much rely on getting a coupon in the fall. If I didn't get a coupon, I'd just wait for a good sale: Shutterfly always has sales.
October 5, 2017
I love fall, but I don’t have a ton of autumn- or Halloween-themed home decor. To keep my holiday decorating contained and manageable, I usually create a little “altar” of decorations. For autumn it’s candles and pumpkins. For Christmas it’s our little tree with lights.
This year I decided to create a small fabric banner that I could hang at my altar and reuse in the future. This mini tapestry now hangs where a Christmas tree would, and nicely fills the vertical space.
I used only scrap fabric I already had.
tie-dye: from a maxi skirt that I altered into a mini skirt
chevron print: from new pillowcases I sewed earlier this year
black & white print: from a sample fabric swatch of a print I made for Soul Flower
plain black fabric: an old t-shirt of Rob's that I cut into rags
The fringes I made by cutting thin strips of the knit fabric and stretching them a bit. Knit fabric tends to curl when you pull on it, creating the perfect fringes!
The twine pieces are from a roll of jute(?) string I’ve had for years. Surprisingly, it comes in handy for a lot of things. I’ll have to buy more when it runs out.
The letters I cut out of black t-shirt fabric and stitched on. Knit fabric is a pain to work with like this! It curls up like crazy. I struggled with “Happy” but learned for “Autumn”: I coated the backside of it with Elmer’s glue and let it dry before cutting out the letters. Glue acts as a sizing to the fabric, adding stiffness and preventing it from curling. Worked like a charm!
I sewed everything with my old sewing machine, except the blanket stitching around the edges (which I did by hand).
I painted the pumpkin with acrylic paints, starting with a white base and a second coat of orange. The white behind helped the orange paint pop, instead of getting lost into the black background. Drew the pumpkin lines on with orange Sharpie.
It’s the perfect addition to my little autumn altar!
April 27, 2017
It’s Fashion Revolution week this week. Because of my job, I think about ethical fashion every day. My wardrobe is still a work in progress, but for the past few years I’ve started to actually align what I wear with my values.
What inspired me to build a more mindful wardrobe:
- working at Soul Flower
- watching The True Cost movie
- learning about ethical fashion, minimalism, zero waste, veganism, and all different aspects of mindful living
As of April 2017, this is my wardrobe:
35% of the items in my wardrobe are secondhand: bought thrifted, got at a swap, or are hand-me-downs from someone. The rest I bought new. I’d like to buy LESS brand new.
I don’t have many items that I’ve owned for a long time. I tend to cycle through clothes because they’re shitty and start to look bad, or because I get bored. I’d like to give my clothes a longer life cycle.
A pretty decent chunk of my wardrobe was made in the USA, and I credit that to all the clothes I own from Soul Flower. The rest of these countries are from brands whose working conditions I know nothing about. Not cool.
Moving forward, here’s how I’ll continue to build a kinder wardrobe:
Always first: buy less. It’s hard to go against the cultural norm of buy, buy, buy. You’ve got to continually remind yourself why you don’t want to participate in our consumerist world. But collecting clothes and things doesn’t help our planet and doesn’t make us happier.
If I do buy clothes, shoes, or accessories, secondhand will be my first instinct. I’ve had good luck buying used online from eBay, Vinted, Poshmark, and ThredUp. (Here’s a referral link to ThredUp - you get $10, I get $10.) I enjoy the hunt, and although I’m hesistant to admit this: in the past, I’ve spent hundreds of hours searching for a single item… over the course of weeks/months. But all that time and energy has resulted in the best-made purchases in my closet. No joke.
Buy USA made
It’s becoming easier and easier to find USA-made brands these days. And I will continue to seek them out. I like USA made because it seems like those items are higher quality and more mindfully designed and crafted. Plus it supports local economies and people getting paid fair wages.
Buy Fair Trade
Buying Fair Trade is the next best thing to buying USA made, I think. I’m not against purchasing items made in other countries, as long as the workers there are treated like actual humans and not machines. Fair Trade means safe working conditions, third party oversight, and fair wages. Jewelry is incredibly easy to find Fair Trade (or handmade in the USA), so that’s a category where I have zero tolerance for fast fashion.
Love what I own
This can be difficult because it’s so easy to get swept up in wanting what other people have and getting sick of what I have. But I think once you start to buy more mindfully, you are careful about what you bring into your wardrobe. You’re more likely to pick something you LOVE instead of something that’s just on sale. And this makes loving that item easier.
If we want to see fashion become a force for good, we're going to have to change the way we think about what we wear and why we wear it. We need to love our clohtes more. We need to look at them as precious heirlooms and as trusted friends.
How to be a Fashion Revolutionary
Another aspect to loving what I already own is taking care of what I own. Mending rips and tears. Laundering correctly. Washing my bras in a mesh bag and air drying to make them last longer. I’d also love to get an indoor clothesline or drying rack in our apartment to cut down on energy and wear.
To help you in YOUR journey
I’m collecting USA-made and ethically-made items and brands I like on my Slow Fashion pinterest board.
The Done Good app/Chrome extension alerts you when you’ve found a mindful brand. I’ve discovered a bunch of awesome companies with this.
Verena Erin of My Green Closet youtube channel does an inspirational job living and explaining ethical fashion.
There are a thousand other ethical fashion resources I could link to here. But I don’t want to overwhelm. If you’re interested, just search for ‘ethical fashion’ and follow your heart.
Here’s to living mindfully!
January 13, 2017
I’ve been working from home since June 2011 = 5.5 years. Before that, I only worked in real offices for 3 years. So I’ve been working remotely longer than I ever worked in a workplace. Wow. We live in the future!
Now, I don’t work for myself (I’m not freelance), I work for a company. I’m just a remote employee, away from an office full of people up at headquarters 1,200 miles away.
Working from home is, on the whole, amazing and awesome. If you asked me how I like working from home, I’d say, without pause, “I love it.” But everything good is balanced with bad. Here’s what I think:
It’s quiet at home. I like quiet. I can sit and really think through things without having to drown out voices with noise cancelling headphones. I’m a quiet introvert by nature; quiet is my jam.
SUCKS: no co-workers
Yes, I have co-workers, but we obviously don’t work together in the same space. This makes casual brainstorming and impromptu chats about ideas super rare occurences. That melding of minds, that social interaction – I know they’re powerful, but it’s harder to do online. Also, communicating with people via email and the internet is so much slower. Meaning, intent, body language, and subtle messages get lost in translation.
AWESOME: no commute
I kind of hate driving. When I worked in an office and had to drive to work in snowy Minnesota weather, I would take the long way because it was more winding-back-roads/less go-fast-on-crowded-highway and it felt safer. Driving is stressful shit and I feel sad for anyone who has to commute to work everyday. I’m so incredibly thankful I don’t have to. Having to drive to work again would be a dealbreaker for me.
SUCKS: never leave the house
When you work, eat, chill, and sleep - all in the same space - you never have to leave the house! Working from home has definitely turned me into more of a homebody. Mayyyybe a little bit of a hermit. It’s just so EASY to stay home and fill my day with work and projects; sometimes I have to force myself to get the hell out of here for a change. Can’t say I’m proud of keeping myself cooped up all the time, but when my only reason to leave is to go buy an overpriced latte? I usually talk myself out of it.
AWESOME: flexible time
Because I don’t have to answer to a boss who sits down the hall, I have more flexiblity with my time and with how I choose to structure my day. It’s nice to feel like I have a safe space for drawing all day long and not being required to talk to anyone.
SUCKS: feeling like a slacker
There’s a stigma about working from home: that if you work at home you’re not really working, you’re just watching TV and sleeping. It’s an old-fashioned perspective, I think. Old skool managers think you’re trying to get out of work by “working” from home so you can just sit around all day and goof off. Anyone who works remotely will tell you this isn’t the case. In fact, I often feel like I need to prove that I’m a hard worker, by replying to emails right away, and always answering the phone, and working late if I didn’t “show” enough work for the day. Whatever that means. It’s all made-up in my mind. I never want to look like a slacker, so I try extra hard to not be.
Does anyone out there NOT like working from home? What are the biggest things you miss by being away from the action? Advice on keeping things balanced?